Archive | November, 2010

The Morning After…

Happy Monday, friends!  I hope you all had a fantastic Thanksgiving – I know I did!  I was sick for part of the weekend, but I still really enjoyed the quality time with my family and friends.  My plan called for me to avoid sugar and starches and enjoy the rest of the food this weekend in moderation, and I’m happy to report that I did it!  Due to crappy weather, being sick, and not having access to a gym, my only workout was an awesome run on Friday, so I am really looking forward to getting back in the gym this week.

So, it’s the “morning after” now.  How’d you do?  Did you go into the holiday with a plan for how to approach it?  Did you decide to indulge reasonably and in moderation?  Or did you decide to treat Thanksgiving just like any other day?  Maybe you made a conscious choice to throw caution to the wind and just go wild for the weekend.

Whatever your plan was, did you stick to it?  Dwelling in the past isn’t always useful, but if you can use past experiences to learn a lesson and be better equipped for the next holiday (which, ahem, is in 26 days), then it’s not “dwelling” at all.   My advice to you is this: have a plan.  Then when the day has passed, evaluate your plan.  Did it work?  Did you stick to it?  How do you feel?  Can you tweak your plan to make it better next time?  Are you feeling empowered or deprived?  Etc.  Take your pulse now that Thanksgiving is over.

Even more importantly, though – today is a new day.  Even if you had a plan and then failed spectacularly at its execution, it’s over.  Every moment, every meal, every workout from this moment forward provides you with a new opportunity to start making healthy choices again.  Healthy people aren’t healthy 100% of the time, you know.  They’re not perfect.  But they don’t use one bad day (or weekend) as the reason to throw in the towel, throw up their hands, and give up completely.  Get back on track – today.  Decide that your next meal or snack will be a healthy one.  Look at your calendar and plan your next workout.  Heck, your next week’s worth of workouts!

This post feels all over the place.  What I really want to say is this:

I hope you had a fantastic Thanksgiving.
I hope you had a plan and stuck to it.

And for those that didn’t, I hope you love yourself enough to say, “Thanksgiving is over.  I wasn’t perfect, but that’s okay – it doesn’t make me a bad person.  And I am worth the effort and planning it will take to get back on track today.”

What is your advice to people who may be just starting their journey and who feel overwhelmed by the holidays?  How did you do?  What lessons did you learn for next time?

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Happy Thanksgiving!

Happy Thanksgiving to all of my American readers celebrating today!  I hope you are blessed with quality time with your loved ones.  Enjoy the holiday, count your blessings, and be ready to get back at it tomorrow with all you’ve got!

I’ll be out of town the rest of this holiday weekend, so you may not hear from me again until Monday.  Be good, stay safe, and have fun!

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Gratitude

At the risk of sounding cliched, I want to take this opportunity to name some of the many, many blessings for which I am thankful.  What better time to do this than the week of Thanksgiving, an entire holiday that originated with the idea of thankfulness?!

As you may know if you’ve read this blog for long, no mention of gratitude or thankfulness would be complete for me without acknowledging the Source of all good things in my life.  So before mentioning those things for which I am grateful, it is only right for me to declare out loud my belief that all goodness in life comes from God.

Above all things, I am thankful for the people in my life.  From my loving and funny husband, to my loud, crazy, cool family, to my many friends “in real life” as well as the blogsphere, my relationships with you all are the best part of my life.  I believe that of all of the “stuff” in this world, only people are eternal.  Money, houses, books, jewelry, and other things are all fleeting.  People are forever, and my passion in life is building authentic, sincere relationships with the people in my life.  I’m blessed to be loved by so many wonderful people, including you.

I am also thankful for the blessing of my home.  Especially this week, when our weather has been so cold, I am reminded of how fortunate we are to have a warm home in which to live.  Food on the table.  Blankets on the bed.  Money to pay our bills to keep the heat and the lights on.  So many are not as fortunate, and I don’t ever want to take my “creature comforts” for granted.

Next, I’m grateful for my job, not just because it helps pay our bills, but because it give me the opportunity to make a living doing what I love.  My job is perfect for me – I get to learn new things almost every day, am continually challenged intellectually, and also have the opportunity to do something I’m good at.   What’s more, I work for a boss who shares my passion for excellence in business and for helping and educating people.

I am eternally grateful to have been born into my wonderful family.  I know I mentioned “people” and relationships first, so I guess this is really a subcategory of that.  But I can’t write a post about gratitude without acknowledging how blessed I am by my family.  My parents loved (and love!) us unconditionally.  My siblings would walk through fire for me.  My niece and nephews are so amazing that I sometimes want to clone them instead of having my own children!  And being born int0 a Lebanese American family has afforded me the unique and wonderful opportunity to choose the things I most love about my Lebanese heritage, while being raised with all of the privileges of an American.

I could go on and on.  I’m grateful for my good health.  For a body that has responded to years of abuse not by somehow “punishing” me but by functioning perfectly through this weight loss process.  For running.  For sunshine.  For living in such a beautiful part of the world.  For growing up on an island.  And for so much more.

I don’t articulate my gratitude enough.  Do you?  What are you grateful for this Thanksgiving season?

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Wordless Wednesday

Sub-10 Minute Mile

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Something to Chew on…The Great Spin Experiment of 2010

I think a lot about stuff before I do it. I read about it. I talk to other people who’ve done what I’m thinking about doing. I Google it. I ask friends about their experiences. I write about it with my Cyber Girls. I think about it while I’m driving home from work, cooking dinner, and when I’m showering. I consider it from multiple angles. Weigh the pros and cons, and then and only then do I decide whether or not to do it myself.

So when one of my Cyber Girls recently fought back her fears of public humiliation and set her booty in the spin saddle for the first time, and then afterward told me she was going TWICE a week even with the added expense of child care, I had to ask myself, “Why haven’t I done this yet?”

Well, the first reason I’d not spun, or gone to Spin, or done spinning, was that I didn’t belong to a gym that offered fitness classes. I know, right? Like what’s the point of a gym membership if they don’t offer classes? Inspired by my Cyber Girl I researched local gyms, visited them and ultimately joined the Rulon Gardner Elite Training Center (ETC). Sounds so fancy and athletic-ey, doesn’t it? (For those who don’t follow wrestling, Rulon Gardner is a two-time Olympic medal winner [Gold in 2000, Bronze in 2004] and he is from this area.)

Now with the first reason I’d not tried a Spin class resolved, I considered my options. One, use this gym just as I had the one I previously belonged to which meant rarely. Two, immerse myself into group fitness classes, including Spin, and get all that I could from my membership. Three, workout at home, which sadly has become a bit of a sore spot with FitHub because my super-cool and well-fitting, black-soled Asics running shoes have done great damage to the wall-to-wall carpet in the room I use to exercise. I know. Buy new shoes. But do you know how many YEARS it took me to find a pair of shoes that don’t pinch my toes, make tender the tops of my feet, or send searing pain into my heels? I thought a perfectly reasonable option was to rip out the carpet but FitHub said no. Go figure.

Anyhow, so I have three options for using this new gym and I’m guessing it’s fairly obvious which one I picked since this post is called “The Great Spin Experiment of 2010” and I couldn’t really have a Great Spin Experiment if I kept working out at home. So yes. I committed to myself, FitHub and my Cyber Girls to embark on The Great Spin Experiment of 2010. (I like to name stuff. Makes it all seem so much more momentous.) This great experiment would entail me taking a Spin class, and if I survived it, committing to partaking in a minimum of one Spin class a week until I either 1) lose 50 pounds or 2) can no longer use my legs due to the pain inflicted during Spin class.

Confident that spinning would be easy-peasy for me because I occasionally hop on my mountain bike for an 8-12 mile road ride, I was confident I could meet the demands of The Great Spin Experiment and so I entered my first class with a bit of spinning-directed joie de vivre. For those of you that have been to a Spin class I’m thinking you’re guessing that I crashed and burned on my Spin bike. Well, you’re wrong. But I didn’t exactly whip any Spin booty either.

In my typical music-video-Brittany Spears-esque approach to group fitness classes, I introduced myself to my fellow Spinners and asked them for pointers on setting up my bike. We were all sharing tales of our exercise regimens and bonding in a we’re-all-here-to-get-fit way when in walked our instructor, Keiko. She is a petite, Japanese woman who looks about as tough as a beautiful, fluttery butterfly. Silly me. What she lacks in girth she makes up for in brutal push intervals.

Keiko started the music, hopped on her bike and started pedaling. We all did the same. During the ten-minute warm-up she introduced herself, and us newbies introduced ourselves to her. Then she and another student chit-chatted about their local road biking crew/group/gang. (Help me out here, what is the correct term for people who regularly road ride in packs?)

After the warm-up we started cranking the brake to increase the resistance on the bike and then came the sprints. This is where I knew I had met my match and where my inner Brittany abandoned me and left me alone with scared-I’ll-brake-a-pedal Fat Girl. So I didn’t stand up. I just kept pedaling and when instructed to: turning the brake.

Sweat dripping from my head to the handlebars, heart rate comfily posited in my 85%-of-max range I just kept pedaling. For 65 minutes I pedaled. I smiled. I audibly grunted. (I know, kinda embarrassing, right?) I ignored the cramp in my upper right calf and the soreness that was emanating from my now-numb butt to my hamstring and down to my feet that were also falling asleep. No bother. This was my Great Spin Experiment of 2010 and I was not about to stop pedaling or wuss out because I was a little uncomfortable.

So to endure the pain and make it to the end of the class, I pictured myself in the mountains riding my gorgeous lime-green mountain bike and pedaling with determined fury alongside FitHub. That is what I’m striving for after all: becoming more outdoorsy and getting fit enough to hang with FitHub in his outdoor environs doing his outdoorsy things. And so with the inhalation of a long breath: Keiko, the music, my classmates, the walls, it all melted away. It was just me, my bike, FitHub, and the mountain we were on pedaling uphill to reach the summit. And that got me to the finish. Well, the finish of my first Spin class. That mountain will have to wait until the Great Mountain Bike Experiment of 2011.

When the music finally stopped and my classmates started hopping off their bikes, I did the same. And I immediately bent over to stretch out my calf muscles. That felt good. Really, really good. Like I simply didn’t want to stand back up again because the stretching out of the calf muscles was making me feel all happy. But I did stand back up because I would have looked even sillier than I already did (red-faced, sweaty fat girl) if I had stayed down there for too long with my booty in the air. So I thanked Keiko, said farewell to my classmates, and walked out of class.

I survived and The Great Spin Experiment of 2010 will continue with at least one Spin class a week until I lose 50 pounds. And I’m happy to say that since that first class, I have repeatedly stood up out of the saddle for sprints and have NOT broken the pedals off the bike. Yay!

Do you ever zone out while you’re running/walking/biking/working? If so, what do you picture yourself doing and whom are you doing it with? (Keep it G rated people.) Do you Spin? Do you think I’m a wimp because I bought a gel seat cover for Spin class?

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